Under the Hood

How to do it

Instead of making direct contact with the clitoral glans, focus your movements on the clitoral hood (the fold of skin covering the clitoris). Use one or two fingers to rub, circle, or tap the skin of the hood. The hood acts as a soft barrier, allowing the nerves underneath to be stimulated by the movement of the skin rather than the friction of a finger. You can also pull the hood slightly upward or side-to-side to vary how the internal tissue is massaged.

Why it works

For many, the clitoris is so densely packed with nerve endings that direct touch can feel overwhelming, ticklish, or even sharp. Using the hood as a buffer “muffles” the intensity of the friction, converting it into a soft, rolling pressure. This allows for a more gradual and comfortable buildup of arousal, making it an ideal approach for those with high sensitivity or during the hypersensitive period immediately following an orgasm.